If tomorrow’s calendar says job interview, sales meeting, big game or major presentation, giving a toast or initiating a tough conversation, then the cold sweats that wake you up tonight are not going to make tomorrow go more smoothly.  It’s just nerves.  Nerves are a normal part of anticipating something important coming up.  However, it should be only that – a part of what you are feeling – not a paralyzing, sleep-stealing obstacle that keeps you from succeeding on the big day.  The antidote to nerves is the Three Point Strategy, a way to prepare by looking at your situation from three points of perspective.