With only days left before the beginning of 2010 you may have already been thinking about how your life will be different in the New Year. Is losing unwanted weight on your to-do list? How about finding a new job? Or moving to a new place? Do these types of thoughts about your future leave you feeling sort of anxious? If so, I have three simple words of advice for you to live by as you cross over into 2010: Stop, Look, and Listen!